Author » John Meyer
There is a light

Energy flows all around us. It’s how we tap into the light that makes our days different. The dark is present, waiting to fill a void. You either invite it ... Read more
Sat July 4th, 2009 - No Comments
It’s in the blood

The boys and I get absolutely addicted to a movie at a time and wear all the jokes and songs thin. First it was Chicken Little, then Toy Story and ... Read more
Thu June 25th, 2009 - 3 Comments
That’s it, I’m calling Santa

I used to think I was a pretty patient person — that is, until I had mini people. My precious, and most of the time well-behaved, bundles keep my heart rate ... Read more
Mon June 15th, 2009 - 2 Comments
Cheeky Chicky

‘Chicky’ is the nickname I’ve given my youngest for two reasons. First, his beautiful furry hair sticks up like a fluffy spring chicken and the predictive text on my phone ... Read more
Tue June 2nd, 2009 - 1 Comment
Something to remember

Back as far as I remember, There was a time I’d lay a gentle kiss On my sleeping baby’s forehead and past my wife, a fond farewell — wedded bliss. Into a day, ... Read more
Thu May 28th, 2009 - 3 Comments
Catholicism vs Trekism

I attended big school orientation day the other day. I made friends with my son’s best friend’s dad and spent time remembering my old school days. The bright sunny day started ... Read more
Tue May 19th, 2009 - 11 Comments
Look, up there, is it a bird, a plane?

In less than two months, the big man turns five. The big party, it seems, is a very big deal to this now very astute, grown-up boy. I’ve started planning ... Read more
Wed May 13th, 2009 - 2 Comments
Sick little soldiers

Since returning from our Melbourne holiday, the mini men have been sick little soldiers. Last week, they caught a bug from pre-school which made them feverish, sleepy and sore all over. ... Read more
Tue May 5th, 2009 - 5 Comments
Are we there yet? Part II

It was 3.40am and the front door slammed shut. There were some pretty heavy weeing sounds coming from the bathroom. I got up to see if the boys were okay. In ... Read more
Tue April 28th, 2009 - 1 Comment
Are we there yet? Part I

Roadtrip 2009. Destination: Melbourne. Holidaymakers: Me, Mini Man x 2, ex-wife and my mother (cue stabbing strains from the movie Psycho). I sound like I’m a sucker for punishment, but I had ... Read more
Tue April 21st, 2009 - 1 Comment
Isn’t that my job?

I was watching the mini men decimate the lounge room on the weekend. Between pushing trains on wooden tracks and performing commando rolls, they briefly turned their attention to the ... Read more
Thu April 16th, 2009 - No Comments
I’m going to tell you a secret

Cone bras aside, Madonna and I have a lot in common. We both got married for the wrong reasons, have two biological children and apart from both of us being ... Read more
Tue April 7th, 2009 - No Comments
Play like it’s 1983

Last weekend I went back somewhere close to 1983. I’ve chosen that date because of the John Mayer song of similar experience and I like his music even though I ... Read more
Thu April 2nd, 2009 - No Comments
A season or a reason

The boys were spinning themselves into whirling dervishes in the bath last night. I can’t remember if that was before or after the Chomp bar I halved out to them. ... Read more
Wed March 18th, 2009 - 2 Comments
A state of gay

I was reading the Advocate.com and saw an article where some Russian guy is suggesting the USA will collapse and break into six territories because of the number of gay ... Read more
Tue March 10th, 2009 - 2 Comments
Still looking up

The ropes uncoiled from the ceiling and the silent snipers darted down swiftly. The chopper carrying the Premier and Police Commissioner swooped in while the police cadets in knee-high, black shiny ... Read more
Tue March 3rd, 2009 - No Comments
Swings and roundabouts

Last Friday the boys and I spend the night yanking pizza wedges apart and silently inhaling them like all young men do. We progress through the evening with some wrestling and ... Read more
Tue February 24th, 2009 - 2 Comments
There are kids in Africa

The ‘Restaurant closed’ sign swung to a dizzy stop over my shoulder. The boys had finally eaten the dinner they had orchestrated through me, their personal short-order cook. First they told ... Read more
Tue February 17th, 2009 - No Comments
The curious case of life

I drove home last night with a lump in my throat the size of a golf ball. I stared through the windscreen and steered vacantly all the way. The sun was ... Read more
Wed February 11th, 2009 - No Comments
The drive home

I grew up on a farm in New England. The mountain-ringed sky was endlessly filled with clouds, the afternoon sun set the sky ablaze, the tall grasses in the fields ... Read more
Wed February 4th, 2009 - No Comments
What is a dad?

I joined Gay Dads NSW a week or so ago and have found another land of similarity to feel like home in. What piqued my interest from their website was a ... Read more
Wed January 28th, 2009 - 1 Comment
Miranda and Me

Everyone wants to be Carrie or Samantha and on a Sunday when they are cooking their roast dressed in white, oven mitt and pearls on, they want to be Charlotte. ... Read more
Wed January 21st, 2009 - No Comments
There’s a man in the house

My mini-men keep me in check, and they like to check up on me regularly. Just recently, I put them in the bath and let them splash around while I resurrected ... Read more
Wed January 14th, 2009 - 1 Comment
Going Troppo

Out of one eye I could see the shade retreating over our legs. Sweat was literally pouring off our lifeless bodies, so we got up, limply dragged the mattress further ... Read more
Wed January 7th, 2009 - 2 Comments
Live your goals

The towers lowered behind me as I marched through the Domain on my way home. The sun was so high, so hot. The grass just mown, sweet summer carried on ... Read more
Wed January 7th, 2009 - 1 Comment
GAMMA
GAMMA, a support group for married men who have sex with men, meets in secure confidential and non-sexual surroundings at the ACON building, 9 Commonwealth St, Surry Hills, on the first and third Wednesdays of each month at 8pm. There is also a support line, Monday-Friday 6-10 pm, on 9267 4000.
www.gamma.org.auGAY BUSINESS
The Sydney Gay and Lesbian Business Association hosts Lemons With a Twist on the first Friday of each month and Fruits in Suits on the third Thursday of each month, at Slide.
www.sglba.com.auCOME OUT AUSTRALIA
Come Out Australia is a social group for our community, with branches in Canterbury-Bankstown, Epping/ Northern Districts and Penrith. You're invited to "Come Out"; get involved with a branch, event, project, or to start something happening in your area.
www.comeout.org.auQUEERSCREEN
Lovers of gay cinema are encouraged to become a member of Queerscreen, Sydney’s premier gay and lesbian film festival body.
www.queerscreen.com.au
Current Issue
Hope for lock-out rethink

Oxford St publicans have called on the newly-formed Sydney Liquor Task Force to review the 2am lock-out system and come up with more effective measures for handling alcohol-related violence. The state Government, with the City ... Read more
Oxford now with receiver
Oxford Hotel management insists it will be business as usual despite the pub’s holding ... Read more
Same-sex marriage push
The Greens have made good on a promise to introduce a private member’s bill ... Read more
ACON’s three-year vision
ACON CEO Stevie Clayton has declared a drop in HIV rates as a key ... Read more
Back on the trax
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