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    What is a ‘Sharing Relationship’?

    I know of couples that have been together for many years and still do not have a shared bank account. So how much do you financially share in a relationship? Well you could have a joint bank...

    • Posted 59 days ago
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    How fused is your relationship?

    We have all seen the couples dressed exactly the same, holding hands in busy shopping centre complexes, leaving others to navigate around them when they won’t drop their attachment. This is a visual clue of a fused...

    • Posted 67 days ago
  • Leaning Tower of Penis

    It can happen to some men in younger years and can happen to other men as they age but a loss of interest in being sexual with ones partner can cause a great deal of stress and...

    • Posted 67 days ago
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    Feeling inferior on the gay scene?

    God, I remember my early bar days with affection but also acknowledge that for much of my beginning gay life I felt a bit inferior to others on the scene. Others seemed more buffed, slimmer, neater, better...

    • Posted 88 days ago
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    Reject Me Not

    Most of us have been rejected by someone who we are interested in. Phrases such as, “It’s not you, it’s me” and “I’ll call you” (but they never do) are not something new. Rejection is, sadly, a...

    • Posted 88 days ago
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    Confusion over intimacy and sex

    I have long term couples coming to see me worried that because they are no longer having regular sex they are scared about losing their sense of intimacy. They think sex is intimacy and they are wrong....

    • Posted 94 days ago
  • Motley Crew of Love

    This month marks the 20 year anniversary that I have known Dawn. Kylie ended her musical career on K25, so I borrowed the theme and ‘J&D20’ took over my facebook last week. I started the pictorial festivities...

    • Posted 122 days ago
  • Giving up the sausage

    I try to be an ethical person; I don’t eat meat, I don’t drive a car, and sometimes I even forgot the convenience of self-service checkouts at the supermarket to give checkout workers some human interaction. These...

    • Posted 178 days ago
  • Online dating tips

    With the increase in access to internet and social media, many more people are meeting online. Many people who have met this way have happy, loving, long-term relationships, but some have horror stories to tell. For people living...

    • Posted 192 days ago
  • Mindfulness a great gay lover

    Have you ever had sex with your partner only to realise you haven’t noticed as much as you used to along the way? Of course you have, we all have! These are common examples of not being...

    • Posted 270 days ago