Increasingly conservative values are threatening the easygoing summer lifestyle of the gay man.  It is holiday time again, where hot weather skyrockets the libido, and …

I greatly miss receiving printed gay Christmas cards in the post. In the 1990s and 2000s, every overseas holiday also meant buying more cards from …

As we return to attending saunas, it is time to re-examine their Codes of Conduct/Conditions of Entry. What Codes/Conditions you may ask? These do exist, …

After 30 years and over 650 group masturbation parties, The Melbourne Wankers have put away the oil and put their clothes back on. Lockdowns and lack of …

I’m determined that I’m not going to let lockdowns deter me from having deep, meaningful, and yes, often trivial conversations with my nearest and dearest. …

One of my bi-sexual married lovers died. But how to say goodbye? We had been sexually active together for many years. No one within the …

“That is a great story. You should be writing that down.” “But who would want to read it? It is like ancient history now.” What …

Should we go back into the closet? That was the question. Many mature-age gay men are discussing aged care, and in particular, the question of …

As an active participant of dating apps, I meet many mature-age gay men who live alone. And I’m beginning to notice a pattern. Take Jim*, …

At the end of 2020, 5.6% of American adults identified as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, or queer. According to these latest Gallup Poll figures, that’s up …