Controlling the urge to surge
It is so exciting, the thrill of meeting someone, courting them all through the night until finally you speak and the sparks fly.
That first kiss is intense, as is the cab ride you share. Then you race upstairs and the clothes come off – so much heat, so much passion!
But then it’s over before it began. You are slightly flattered but annoyed. He’s embarrassed but relaxed and the whole mess has all but wound up on your leg.
Some gu
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