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Being single: is it bad or just great?

Some of us feel incomplete if we don’t have a partner; meanwhile others rejoice in the freedom of the single life. In any lifetime I …

Do we really need it all?

I’m presently reading Velvet Rage – I highly recommend for all gay men – which highlights the subject of gay shame and our constant need for validation …

Being gay is more than having sex

I remember very well my first teenage sexual adventures with gorgeous men, breaking away from what was expected of me as a male by Australian …

Ten minutes enough for couples?

Ten minutes has been found to be the average time long-term couples spend talking to each other in a day. Think about it and you might …

You are not the problem (what a relief!)

The problem is the problem and you are not the problem. A bold statement but let me explain. Say you want to give up cigarettes: …

Walls that develop in relationships

Emotionally hiding behind a wall in a relationship feels a safe place to be sometimes but if left unchallenged it can lead to permanent isolation. …

What is a ‘Sharing Relationship’?

I know of couples that have been together for many years and still do not have a shared bank account. So how much do you …

How fused is your relationship?

We have all seen the couples dressed exactly the same, holding hands in busy shopping centre complexes, leaving others to navigate around them when they …

Help! I’m coming down like a bitch!

You had a great party weekend, met many sexy and cool people, told your life story a few times and heard a few. You were …

Feeling inferior on the gay scene?

God, I remember my early bar days with affection but also acknowledge that for much of my beginning gay life I felt a bit inferior …