Katherine’s purple heart
While the world has been shocked by the story of US student Tyler Clementi — who killed himself after fellow students posted a clip of him kissing another man on the internet — one Sydney schoolgirl says enough is enough.
Katherine, 17, who attends a school in the inner west, is holding a Wear It Purple armband day on Friday, October 15 so Australians can show support for gay teenagers at risk of self-harm.
“I saw the recent spate of suicides in America and there were four last week, and my friend sent me a link to an Ellen DeGeneres video about it and I confess I cried across my keyboard, I was so shocked,” she told Sydney Star Observer.
“It prompted me to think if this is happening in America, what’s happening in Australia?”
Clementi is one of at least four reported teenagers to commit suicide in the US last month as a result of sexuality bullying.
The picture for Australian teens is no less bleak, with studies showing young GLBT people up to six times more likely to attempt suicide than heterosexuals.
Further research also shows around 80 percent of GLBT Australians have experienced public insult, 70 percent verbal abuse, 20 percent explicit threats and 13 percent physical assault.
A 2005 nationwide study of same-sex attracted (SSA) youth found that nearly 38 percent of SSA young people had experienced discrimination, with almost 50 percent reporting verbal abuse because of their sexuality, 74 percent of that abuse at school.
Self-harm rates are higher for GLBT young people, particularly young females, and GLBT Indigenous Australians and those living in remote areas face increased pressures.
Katherine said these statistics have prompted her to call on Australians to wear a purple armband on October 15.
“That’s what we’re really trying to show these kids, that they are loved and they are accepted and they’re not alone,” she said.
“While this is in people’s minds and while people are angry, we’ve got to do something about it.”
The Wear It Purple campaign in Australia is set to mirror action to be taken in the US on October 20.
Twenty10 managing director Rebecca Reynolds said the youth organisation was behind the day as a positive way to address GLBT suicide and depression.
“I had a young person question why the [US] story had become such a big issue over there and it wasn’t the same over here,” Reynolds said.
“We’re really happy to support this event because it’s about getting the discussion going.”
Reynolds said young people involved with Twenty10 will make their own armbands for the day.
“There’s been a very enthusiastic and lively response,” she said.
“I think they feel that someone closely connected is doing something about it, and it feels like they can.”
info: Follow the Wear It Purple campaign on Facebook and Twitter.
Katherine and others can make a difference since she obviously understands what “unintended consequences” is about.
After 23 years in juvenile court, I believe that teenagers
learn from the experiences of their peers, not just from being lectured by those in authority. Consequently, “Teen Cyberbullying Investigated” was published in January, 2010.
Endorsed by Dr. Phil on April 8, 2010 [“Bullied to Death” show], “Teen Cyberbullying Investigated” presents real cases of teens in trouble over their online and cell phone activities.
Civil & criminal sanctions have been imposed on teens over their emails, blogs, text and IM messages, Facebook entries and more. TCI is interactive and promotes education & awareness so that our youth will begin to “Think B4 U Click.”
Thanks for looking at “Teen Cyberbullying Investigated” on http://www.freespirit.com [publisher] or on http://www.askthejudge.info [a free website for & about teens and the law].
Respectfully, -Judge Tom.
Thanks to Katherine, Twenty10, Sydney Star Observer and everyone who is raising awareness about supporting gay and lesbian young people. As a counsellor and therapist working with gay men and lesbians who have survived abuse, I am inspired by these stories.
Thank goodness for ethical students like Katherine.