Marriage equality will be achieved with a head and a heart

Marriage equality will be achieved with a head and a heart
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MALCOLM Turnbull will achieve marriage equality. Potentially before the next election.

That’s not just a fanciful idea it has been said to me by politicians and Liberal Party power-brokers who are keen to get this issue off the table.

[showads ad=MREC]Turnbull knows in his heart of hearts that marriage equality makes sense. He just needs to bring his party along with him.

Countless opinion polls have found that a majority of Australians do believe in human rights and dignity for all. Unnecessary and discriminatory laws that prevent, say, me from marrying a man doesn’t sit well with Australia.

Last month, the Senate’s Legal and Constitutional Affairs Committee handed down their report which recommends that the Marriage Act is amended to allow for marriage between two people — regardless of their gender — “as a matter of urgency”.

This cross-party report wants marriage equality realised quickly. It isn’t the most exciting report, but it recognises that a plebiscite or referendum would be a shirking of the job that politicians are elected to do (that is, to vote on proposed laws).

But beyond the legal mumbo jumbo, there is wide evidence that shows marriage equality will create a more harmonious and inclusive Australia and will stimulate the economy.

So, now that they’ve turfed out Tony Abbott can we expect minted Malcolm Turnbull to achieve marriage equality?

In assuming the leadership, Turnbull said he was holding party policy. Smart move. The conservatives think he’s turning them into the pages of Green Left Weekly (or worse, the Labor Herald), so he is instituting a consultative process.

Fear not, same-sex couples looking to marry! Behold, the charisma of Prime Minister Turnbull. He’s a man who made his career from making mistakes and then lining up the ducks to never make them again. He will bring us marriage equality in three simple steps.

He will lay out the economics. Fairfax Media analysis shows that this could create over $1 billion in new spending, and potentially thousands of jobs.

Full equality before the law brings dignity and the confidence of humanity to each of us. That will permeate in how we present ourselves at work.

He will go to the heart. How would being prevented from equality make them feel? What about that of their children? Some call it simplistic but then again, this is a human issue.

He will talk to their fear. The backbenchers downed Tony Abbott not because they didn’t agree with him, for the most part they did, but because they thought he was leading them to electoral doom. Marriage equality is an opportunity to unite the community. Voters — red, blue and green — want this. There will be some casualties at the next Federal Election, but this will mitigate big losses.

So, as the conservatives rage and shout fearing a slaughtering at the ballot box if they realise marriage equality, Turnbull will show them that they are doing more damage by denying a vote.

The community wants this. Marriage equality must be achieved for a society that respects and promotes human rights. Denying it is an infringement on our democracy.

Over the past two years more and more businesses have come out, if you will, to demand marriage equality. Partly because it is a distraction to wider policy debates; but also because they see the need for inclusion in their organisations. That starts with the law.

Business isn’t just ready for marriage equality — they are raring for it to go. As boss of business lobby the Australian Industry Group called for marriage equality in 2010, Heather Ridout was a lone voice. Now over 400 join her.

Recently, the chairman of one of Australia’s largest companies said to me “I wish they would just deal with this”, and a chief executive said “I don’t know how you are coping with all the debate”.

The truth is, it is so farcical and bleeding obvious that this situation ought to change. Dignity, equality and respect should prevail.

However, these are the voices and stories in the ear of our new prime minister, and he will take them to the Liberal Party room. Rather than shirking responsibility, he will galvanise the party to consider their hearts, logic and the electorate.

As we know, this issue isn’t going anywhere.

Conrad Liveris is an advocate, adviser and researcher on the politics and economics of diversity. Follow him on Twitter via @ConradLiveris

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**This article was first published in the November edition of the Star Observer, which is available to read in digital flip-book format. To obtain a physical copy, click here to find out where you can grab one in Melbourne, Sydney, Brisbane, Adelaide, Canberra and select regional/coastal areas.

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8 responses to “Marriage equality will be achieved with a head and a heart”

  1. How about we just abolish and repeal the whole Marriage Act 1961?

    Just have a scheme for EVERYONE called the “Adult Human Relationships Recognition Act 2016” that replaces the repealed legislation! This has been dragged on and on and on for far too long now kicking and screaming! Marriage equality will be excellent and will contribute to the Australian economy by $1 billion according to an ANZ study a month ago – however marriage equality will NOT end discrimination in Australia – there are 17 state or territory laws in a number of areas –

    LGB rights:
    * Remember same-sex couples also still can not adopt children in QLD, SA and NT (a legalization gay adoption bill is pending in VIC, just 1 vote away in the upper house – 20 votes are secure by Labor, Greens and Sex Party, need just one more);
    * IVF access for single woman and lesbians is still banned in only SA for some stupid reason;
    * The age of consent is still unequal in only QLD for some stupid reason;
    * Altruistic Surrogacy is still banned for same-sex couples in only both WA and SA;
    * The gay panic defence is still allowed in only both QLD and SA; and
    * There is no formal relationship recognition scheme (such as a civil union) in WA, NT and SA!

    TI Rights:
    * Intersex people and Trans* people must be recognised in the births, deaths and marriages legislation of all states and territories;
    * End the horrible, archaic and out-dated forced divorces of Trans* people;
    * Both conversion therapy and revenge porn must be outlawed in Australia – like what Oregon, California, Illinois, Oregon, New Jersey, DC, Argentina, Brazil have done!

    If I have missed anything let me know, I am a LGBTI rights activist and advocate for nearly 10 years now!

    – Paul Mitchell

  2. New Zealand passed the law under a Conservative government and I have no doubt we will follow suit. End of story!

  3. Don’t bett on that Redbett. There are factions within the ALP who aren’t at all enamoured with marriage equality either. Our greatest hope of having a change that ‘sticks’, is if a conservative government make the call. Public opinon is strong enough on this issue that if everything else balances in a voters mind, this issue will decide their vote. That’s something both parties need to keep in mind.

    • The dangerous NSW right Catholic Fascist faction of the ALP especially and the Homophobic Shoppies Union!

  4. Ruxxy, been following politics for long??? Didn’t think so, Labor is our only chance of seeing equality achieved any time soon.

  5. Well JasonB84 you’d better start hoping you are wrong because its a fair bet you’ll be waiting for years for Labor to get back in.

    • Correct! But it will not happen under Labor Government too until at least 2019 (at the 46th Australian Parliament). This was guaranteed under the Labor Party July 2015 Platform too, I just read Under Clause(s) 56, 198 and 199 on the Conscience Vote, after 2019 it becomes a BINDING VOTE! That is of course Labor gets in the Australian Parliament as a majority within 2019 too!

      Vote 1 Greens in 2016!
      Vote 1 Labor in 2019!